1. If he doesn’t answer, don’t keep sending texts. If he wanted to talk to you, he would’ve responded.

2. People will make time for you when they care about you. If he says he’s too busy or constantly cancels his plans, he doesn’t care. People fight for you when they care.

3. Don’t let him touch you on the first date. If he tries, he’s not there for the same reasons you are.

4. You can tell a lot about a person by their favorite book.

5. If he can stomach more than ten straight shots without feeling a thing, he drinks too much.

6. Ask the uncomfortable things. When was the last time he was so high he couldn’t speak? What does he regret the most? Does he drink to remember or to forget?

7. Don’t send pictures unless you want to. If he has to talk you into it, don’t do it. If you hesitate, don’t do it. If you do take a picture, don’t include your face. Keep yourself safe.

8. If you can’t laugh when you’re having sex with him, maybe you aren’t sleeping with the right person. Sex isn’t about tricks and tips and routines.

9. If he hurts you, cut him out. He’s gone, he isn’t coming back, and you don’t need to prolong the pain.

10. Don’t be afraid to open up again. I promise not everyone will love you with a knife behind their back.

- Boy advice from someone who made the same mistakes too often (via guiseofgentlewords)

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misandry-mermaid:

Interesting how we’re always hearing how shameful and irresponsible it is to be a teen mom.

But we never hear the same messages directed at teen dads.

Or even the words “teen dad”.

It’s almost like society demonizes women’s sexuality and sexual choices while absolving men of all sexual responsibility and judgement.

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yogaholics:

"For whatever we lose (a you or a me), it’s always ourselves we find in the sea." - E. E. Cummings. 
Notting Hill Carnival: Woman shares selfie after being ‘punched in face for telling man to stop groping her’

the-goddamazon:

chickdeney:

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i’m fucking sick and tired of seeing the word “alleged” when it comes to BLATANT ACTS OF VIOLENCE

OMG this is fucking disgusting.

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urgetocreate:

William Theophilus Brown Untitled (Figure on lounge chair) 1961
Maybe the greatest madness is to see life as it is rather than what it could be.
- Miguel de Cervantes, Don Quixote
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tigersdrinktea:

“Blow minds, not dudes” 

Actually you can do both! What a concept! That women can be intelligent as well as sexually active! And we don’t live in the goddamn 18th century and women don’t have to be pure little virgin housewives if they don’t want to! Oh my gosh!

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f0rtylegz:





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~Franz Kline~   Untitled    (1957)